HOW TO FREE FROM NEGATIVE BELIEFS?
RESTART & RELOAD. NEW LIFE.
25 years ago I came to Belgium, filled with bravado and confidence that I could overcome everything and I’ll succeed. Just in maximum 5 years everything will be fine. So, 5 years passed, and a bright future did not come. On the contrary.
HOW COME THAT HAPPENS, YOU COULD ASK
Like everyone else, I was crammed with attitudes, beliefs, ideas about how the things and people should be. The “rights” and “wrongs” in life, you know. I was convinced that they guarantee protection against possible troubles, disappointments, failures.
This continued until one day I was so tired of NOT SUCCEEDING that I dared to question my vision of myself and my relationship with the exterior world.
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?
And a miracle happened 🙂 Such a statement of the question itself completely turned upside down: first, my attitude, and later on, my whole life. As a result of one successful transformation, I began the process of complete TRANSFORMATION of my inner world and the CONVERSION of the decision making process for what matters most.
TRANSFORMATION of some BELIEFS, a CHANGE of ATTITUDE led to a change in self-esteem, relation with myself, events, people. With this came other models of behavior, communication style, career choices. Inevitably this led to a different life experience. Oddly enough, to what I wanted, but what did not work out before. I grew.
HOW TO CHANGE?
There are two ways you could deal with limiting belief. Either you change it completely or you transform it, or convert into something that supports and elevates you today.
YOUR MIND IS JUST A TOOL TO CHANGE, TO CREATE OR TO CONVERT
It’s my pleasure to share with you one of the tools how to change or to convert a limiting belief.
- INSIGHT about the belief: First you need to recognize that it is actually limiting. That it is superficial, inertial. That it comes from past experience.
- INSIGHT about the brain: That it is lazy. That it doesn’t always tell the truth. What you know is billions of times more than you realize on the surface. That it is more powerful than what it offers immediately. That you can choose not to believe it suggests you at once!
- INSIGHT about yourSELF: YourSelf (you) and your brain are a paradox. You are always looking for something cool, the brain – for something simpler/easier, a “shortcut”. Often these are ambivalent desires, which sometimes only seem incompatible, because you always look for something cool, and the brain for something simpler/easier 🙂 What often happens is that same dream, your will, your desire that settled there like a splinter, and which seems not possible to realize, which is clogged with rationalized arguments by your mind – this is what you should go after and implement, because it is there where you find your HAPPINESS, ENERGY, SELF-REALIZATION, MONEY. And arguments like “I can’t, not for me, it’s unrealistic, maybe not for me, I’m not that kind of guy/girl, I don’t have this, I don’t have that ….” This is the brain’s attempt to what? Have you already guessed yourself? That’s right 🙂 To look for something is simpler, because the brain is not there to make us happy, but to make us survive! HAPPINESS, SELF-REALIZATION, HARMONY, MONEY, SATISFACTION – this is your job!
Eternal question: what to do? Only in my case, fortunately, it is not rhetorical 😉 It is necessary to take control in your hands and reboot the brain. Then give it a NEW ORDER!
LEARN, TRAIN AND GAIN!
Want to know more about techniques for EXPANDING your emotional intelligence and attitudes? No problems.
I have developed a method that you can use to rewire and to reengineer your yourSelf with the spear of your Soul. I called Love LifeStyle. Tested in practice by many people whom I helped already and who achieved the results that they wanted. This technique is the result of successful personal experience, knowledge of practical psychology, cognitive practices, the experience of other specialists in the field of health, brain function, health and meditation. And many other sources.
I myself practice it for years and succeed and grow. It works and is applicable in any area of your life: relationships, career, self-realization, health.
Read other related articles like “SOULSET IS THE KEY TO YOUR WELL-BEING?” and “WHAT COULD BE DONE TO AVOID DEPLETION” to learn more about how to activate your human-being with the power of love so you can empower your well-being and therefore to become more effective in your doing.
Nataliya Dolinska – Transformation & Love LifeStyle Inspirational Mentor